When I turned 50 I realized that I had been cheated out of a prosperous and exciting sexual experiences. The girls that I was with had no desire therefore they had no passion and showed very little effort and I realized that I need to go find somebody that will do all of those for me and I know that somebody out there that will I just have to find that person so until then I am building up my sexual skills especially in the mental aspects of things which has made me into a fantastic role player and has allowed me to make people feel comfortable and let their true self out. Life is too short to not be yourself and to do the things that you truly want to do in your mind. I suggest that you not worry about what other people think . Treat them "Like Mind Over Matter" U don't mind cuz they don't matter!!!!!!